Who Am I as a Communicator?

Through doing the inventories, I found two very surprising things. I found that while I scored myself as having some anxiety in communicating, both of the people that also took the inventory scored me in the low anxiety category. That leads me to believe that I am a decent communicator that does not show the anxiety I may be having in some situations. The second very surprising thing I found was in the aggressiveness scale. I scored myself in the moderate category, as did my co-worker. My husband, on the other hand, scored me a bit higher. It was a bit surprising to see, but when I think about it I realize that I am more aggressive with him that with others. Mostl likely it is because of the comfort I have with him and his unconditional love for me. I had to, however, make it a goal of mine this semester to be more respectful and thoughtful when it comes to arguments and disagreements.